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Advice and Chizuk
Living In Eretz Yisroel
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Question: I’m wondering how much emphasis should be put on location—as in where you’re going to live —during the shidduch process. I have the opportunity of pursuing a shidduch with an American boy who’s made aliyah, someone I’m assuming wants to live there. Now, I love Eretz Yisroel...
Ask the Shadchan
Opening Up
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Question: I’d like your advice on a shidduch I’m involved in right now. Right now, we are in between the 3rd and 4th date. He told the shadchan that he likes me and that he “sees possibilities”. I definitely like him and admire the person that he is. How do I signal to him th...
Fashion Tips
Spring Colors 2014
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With Pesach on it’s way, it’s time for spring shopping (whether it feels like it outside or not)! Shopping for this season is always like a breath of fresh air, especially this year, with such wonderful colors. The following is an article on this season’s colors, written by Pantone...
Inspiration
Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein
Hi, so this is not really on the topic of shidduchim per say, more on growing. It is a recent shiur by Rabbi Wallerstein that I really enjoyed....
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This Shiur, by Rabbi Klatzko, is full of valuable tips and tools for any girl that is in shidduchim. Rabbi Klatzko, along with his wit and wisdom, begins with his own humorous dating experience along with his experience at being a Shadchan. He then discusses how to prioritize what one is looking for...

If someone has different fruits in front of them. If one of the fruits are one of the שבעת המינים (grapes, olives,dates, fig ,pomegranate) they should make a Bracha on that first. If there is no שבעת המינים or more then one שבעת המינים they should make a Bracha on a fruit that’s whole. If there is no whole or more then one that’s whole they should make a Bracha on the one that they like better.