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Advice and Chizuk
Forgiveness – How To Move On
forgiveness
Question: For the past two months I’ve been dating a boy that I really liked. Things were going well and we saw eye to eye on a lot of different levels. I was pretty sure we were headed towards engagement and was completely shocked when the shadchan called to tell me that he wants to […]...
Ask the Shadchan
Opening Up
open up
Question: I’d like your advice on a shidduch I’m involved in right now. Right now, we are in between the 3rd and 4th date. He told the shadchan that he likes me and that he “sees possibilities”. I definitely like him and admire the person that he is. How do I signal to him th...
Fashion Tips
Split Bangs
bangs
Question: I need help with this in regards to dating AND every day… my bangs split sometimes, and when they do… it’s so annoying!! Now of course, most people’s bangs are not naturally swept to the side, so what do we do in this situation? I don’t want to be sitting ther...
Inspiration
Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein
Hi, so this is not really on the topic of shidduchim per say, more on growing. It is a recent shiur by Rabbi Wallerstein that I really enjoyed....
klatzko
This Shiur, by Rabbi Klatzko, is full of valuable tips and tools for any girl that is in shidduchim. Rabbi Klatzko, along with his wit and wisdom, begins with his own humorous dating experience along with his experience at being a Shadchan. He then discusses how to prioritize what one is looking for...

If someone makes an early שבת they should be careful to eat a Kezayis of bread at the end of the meal (after Tzais Hakochavim).