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Advice and Chizuk
Is Settling In Shidduchim Ever An Option?
realistic
Question: In the recent Mishpacha article about the shidduch crisis the numbers were scary. In a similar vein, someone once told me, “Girls need to understand that shidduchim is like playing musical chairs — there just aren’t enough ‘chairs’ for every “player!” Make sure yo...
Ask the Shadchan
I Said No But…
second guessing
Question: I dated a boy for about 3 weeks last May. We went out 6 times. I really had a good time, he was a baal maale, baal middos, was considerate, nice, and cared deeply about Torah. We had really good chemistry and I liked being with him. However, he lacked certain things that I […]...
Fashion Tips
Split Bangs
bangs
Question: I need help with this in regards to dating AND every day… my bangs split sometimes, and when they do… it’s so annoying!! Now of course, most people’s bangs are not naturally swept to the side, so what do we do in this situation? I don’t want to be sitting ther...
Inspiration
temp
A friend of mine sent this to me yesterday and I feel compelled to share the inspiration with you. I was in the car and got some inspiration and decided to write. “The inconvenience is temporary yet the results are permanent.” I passed by a construction site with these words plastered on...
succah
I read this on OhrShimshon.com – thoughts from R’ Shimshon Pincus zt”l. It’s an amazing comparison. Enjoy! Imagine for yourself, a Father who is strolling through the busy ‘Shuk’(Marketplace) for Arba Minim in Yerushalayim on Erev Sukkos, on the hunt for that ‘perfect...

According to many opinions mixing even a little bit of water into grape juice will change the bracha from Hagafen to Shehakol.